Summer is in full bloom, your body is beach season-ready (or close enough), and you’re set to start swiping at a furious clip.
But despite dating apps like Tinder, Bumble and Grindr now being the norm, many people are still clueless when it comes to presenting themselves online. In an interview with The Wrap, online dating guru Julie Spira broke down the keys to a top notch dating profile.
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This shows you are confident and not afraid to get want you want.
Spira has been helping singles mingle for more than 20 years.
The Los Angeles-based online dating coach has between 50 and 100 clients at any given time, and she’s not afraid to share her two cents on common Tinder mistakes. But apparently there are guys — and make no mistake: guys are usually the ones making these errors, according to Spira — who insist on posting shirtless bathroom selfies on Tinder. “In the first shot, you need to look happy, you need to look confident.” No emo pictures. Show off your travel spots When it comes to travel, don’t just talk about it in your profile, but be about it.
This aspect of development shouldn’t be relegated to women. To win, you’re going to have to work hard, practice discipline, and persist at whatever venture you’re embarking on. As long as you’re a good guy, have a sense of humor, it’ll allow her to find out just how good you are. See how aroused she is when your T levels are normal.
Take this failure into other areas of your life as well. The winners in life see even their failures as victories. If you can make a girl laugh within the first 5 minutes of meeting her, you’ve got her. A sense of humor is predicated on the fact that you’ve got the confidence to be who you are in any situation. My physique and how I looked physically was pretty much the same in both instances, but the attention I got from ladies when my levels were optimal – is incredible. If you have a girlfriend it’s the best time to test these.