no sense trying again." Some guys will persist just because they figure they have nothing to lose, but a man who respects himself and has options won't try endlessly.So there needs to be some kind of balance between not taking the initiative (which you shouldn't) and showing too little enthusiasm in your replies.When texting a guy I know it is really frustrating when he doesn’t take the situation with as much severity.To win, you need to show some self-restraint and understand that he may not consider messaging you as important as you do.
If a man has taken the initiative, he has already demonstrated his interest, so there's no need to test him further (in that way, at least).
I’ve seen countless women create complete fantasies and get drawn in — often before they even meet a man. With no tonality in messages, texting back and forth creates enormous opportunities to misread and misunderstand intent.
I can’t tell you how many emails I’ve received from coaching clients with a text conversation pasted in and the question: What do you think he means (aka WTF)????
I've dated countless women and it has always amazed me how little they know about men.
If nothing else, this blog is an outlet for voicing my astonishment at the typical female's ignorance of the male mindset.